Sometimes, we make comments that we do not meant to do so. Yes, at times, we say negative things about others, be it intentional, or without any intentions to hurt someone’s feelings.
Mistakes.
We make mistakes now and then. An apology would do most of the time, but some choose to stay offended, and defensive, thus completely shutting you off their inner circle of friends… They totally refuse any forms of apologies.
Why do I sound so philosophical? Well, I probably offended more people these days, with my sarcastic and frank comments. Sorry. But I prefer to be honest than pretentious.
Since secondary school, I have been exposed to the sarcasm remarks of my teachers. I do not make racism comments, either religious. However, I prefer to use descriptions that would describe one, usually in a hurtful manner. All my friends know that I have a habit of making comments that hit you on your ‘Spot’. Yes, I say bad things.
So I recently made a comment about 2 ladies, calling them SPGs. Well, it is probably more of a personal attack than anything. I mean, the kind of lifestyle that I assume they led, is not to be desired, at least to me personally. I believe that many of us have been caught up with too much Western influence, that it has affected our lives. Perhaps i have prejudice, or i am generalizing their behavior / personalities, which i admit i am PARTIALLY WRONG. Partying, bad habits, and the open-mindedness in certain issues are against our Eastern roots - Period.
Call me traditional, call me old-fashioned, call me anything you wish. But, I feel that many of us just too ‘polluted’ by the ‘American culture’, through all media forms.
Anyway, if I have hurt you recently with any comments, don’t take too much offence, I am just expressing myself.
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